How to be attractive brother in your Siblings ?

Piyush Hirpara
3 min readMay 7, 2020

[Ask yourself]

Are you fight with your siblings? Anytime?

At the age of growing, everyone has some of the misunderstandings with the brother or sister. In the family, siblings are fighting with each other for some of the worthy reasons. Many of the siblings I see, He or she ready to move on with friends and say sorry to friends but never say sorry to his or her siblings.

Day to day misunderstanding levels growing and fight with siblings are increasing.

That day-to-day fights, day-to-day life misunderstanding create a gap between you & your siblings. Some of the ego satisfaction and some disagreement are broke our twenty years old story.

Let me share a story with you,

In one family, two brothers always fight together. Younger and big brother think mom and dad are loved more than him to his siblings. And a small brother thinks he is small then his big brother hit him.

Every day both siblings are fighting together because both have one misunderstanding about his family. To both never respect each other.

They both think if my siblings not in the world, then he has a good life. Both never feel of importance about each other. Both never want to see together.

What are the results of the family is after a couple of years later, both live like he never knows together?

Mom and dad are crying because of this situation. All of the family divided because of some misunderstanding.

A couple of years, God gives a chance to both lives together, but both waste chance. Both waste of his life to think about how he creates jealously to his brother?

Both waste of his life.
Are you do that?
Not all of these things, But some of these things.

That means that not a story of "One family," that is a story of your family. That story's some of the points are related to all of us.

Are you trying to change your story?

I don’t know you try or not, but I do.
I create the list of three tasks with some of the Principles if you follow in your life that create a lovely relationship with your siblings.

Task 1: Treat like your GF/BF.

  • Always use suitable language with your siblings.
  • Always be humble and share the love with your siblings.
  • Always say "sorry" who is wrong doesn’t matter.
  • Give a trip to your siblings. No one with together. Only you and your siblings.

Task 2: Be a long drive partner of your siblings.

  • Everyday go to your sibling’s room and say good morning.
  • Spend time with your siblings.
  • Build their self-confidence.
  • Keep their trust.
  • Encourage your siblings.
  • Always fight from your siblings' team if he is wrong or not.

Task 3 : Make a pro relationship.

  • Always give credit to your siblings.
  • Says "Love you" to your siblings.
  • Go to a candlelight dinner with your siblings.

That three tasks with principles give me a result. You also get the results.

Here are some of the things never do,

  • Never criticize your siblings.
  • Never complain and condemn.
  • Never take your sibling’s credits.
  • Never try to feel jealous of your siblings.

Remember those things that the change to solve your problems. You have a task list to do it and solve it.

If you have more questions about relationships, then put on my profile, I will answer for you to be a good sibling.

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Piyush Hirpara

Creative copywriter & ghostwriter. Here I write most pragmatic lessons I learned about freelancing, copywriting, and ghostwriting, so you can save your time.